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Oh she read the comments and deleted the part with her mom 👍🏽
You are feeling all the feels you need to in a relationship/marriage . No one ever said it would be easy.. this that you guys are going through is suppose to happen, it’s a test of love, loyalty and strength. You took vows before god, fight for your husband, fight for your family. Don’t let small things, others or the in the moment emotions ruin what’s truly meant for you! Pray without ceasing..God bless you!
I hope you read some of your comments Latoya. You are big on family and I get that but Adam is your husband, I can tell you first hand that it’s not really a good idea to live with in laws. I currently live with my mother in law and sometimes it gets intense because they feel the need to meddle in my relationship. Sometimes we are so caught up in our own feelings we fail to ask our partner how they feel . Yes therapy sounds great because you can find the root of the problem. Separating is not the answer if you are really trying to work things out.
I think you’re going through some anti partum depression and anxiety too for sure. Especially having the children closer together. I went through a difficult period of anti partum depression and anxiety with my second child and I felt like I was on a roller coaster for like 2 years. Try to rebalance LaToya. Meditate. Tell yourself you’re strong. Start asking yourself how you would feel if this and that. Example “how would I feel if Adam showed me more affection” your mind seems to be scattered which is understandable and no one prepared for a pandemic but you have to rebalance. You have a lot of attention with social media, YouTube etc and I know that has to cause some form of anxiety. Try to go back to drawing board, prioritize what’s important, only change the things you CAN and let go of what you cannot. Praying for you and really hoping you guys can work it out together or apart.
I hope the Rhoa coins worth this eh. Seriously hope it worth it 😂
Rest rest rest bafowethu
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Latoya- come on girl, grow up. Love is shown in many different ways and Adam seems to show his by working hard for the family, taking care of his kids and being simply present. This is real love girl and if you're willing to break up your family bc you dont get a verbal I love you or romantic gestures...you're priorities are all wrong. Think of your family unit and dont make decisions based on those changing emotions. Adam clearly loves you. You cant see that than maybe or it's not enough for you, but it should be everything to you. You're throwing it all away for more surface I love yous and a feeling...seriously? You have 3 kids. Adam is a good one. You should have really appreciated and held on if not for you, for your babies.
Wow, the comments are disgusting. This woman is expressing health issues while pregnant, high levels of stress-- undoubtedly these things caused emotional instability. She needs a strong support system. ❤❤❤ hope things gets better
What's going on with your lips. You look different!
Your mom need to get her some friends or her own man.
I just watched a video about old couples who have been married for over 50 years. They talked about how lack of communication/ understanding in the new generation is what’s ending all these marriages. I will hope you guys get canceling if you guys decide to get back together. I know absolutely nothing about your relationship, but no matter the man you get with he will come with some problems. NO one is going to be perfect, I hope you take your time to sit back and see with the relationship is worth saving. Wish you the best queen 💕
I didnt see her mom in this did she edit it out?
do not beat yourself up! talk with God and he will give you an answer!
I am in a similar situation!
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Does anyone know what her mom said ?
Y'all just spend so much on a house in LA ,dam better y'all did stay in Canada smh
Omg what happened to her...
Sis.... you need to get your mother's opinion out your marriage.... work on it with your husband because I'm sure he can get someone amazing in a heartbeat.... get your mom outta there
Only God can help you, NOT us.
Quit telling her to kick her mom out! Raising kids is hard!! Get all the help you need!
i’m begging you stop taking advice from your mother. break up with ur MOTHER. take a separation from ur mother.. read all the comments please latoya.
Date and when you have kids it can tough too
Many prayers 🙏 and much love
Prayers up for you Adam and the family. I can't speak to the experience. Just want to comment from an outside pespective. You say you feel like you are married to a business partner, but you are. So if that could be the potential hangup for the marriage not evolving...find a different way to manage those businesses. It takes so much to be in relationship...business partnership is adding much more than I could handle. Love you guys. Best of luck.
I let my mom get in the middle of my relationship and it was terrible!!! Never let someone else speak and talk about your relationship. You and Adam need to work on y’all in private with out your mom, without the camera and just y’all. Your has to go, she had to know that you’re an adult and not her anymore. You have a family now, you can’t let someone else judgement about your relationship mess up your entire relationship. LATOYA I LOVE YOU and I’m speaking to you as if you where my cousin..... let her go... 😕
Do you do anything special for Adam?? Ask yourself that, men deserve to be treated well too, they cannot do everything.
I have the experience and just want to let you know its not you. Your a free spirit i can see and adam is just emotional unavailable
Girl after all the kids he should have been their for you more.. he emotionally unavailable. Hopefully counseling will help him see.
Girl your beautiful , you will find that person with the same bubble
Right adam is really emotionally available. I seen it..
It's just difficult having a marriage and business relationship. Having couples and individual therapy will help you figure out which direction you are going to go.
sounds a bit like post partum depressions mixed in there. keeping lines of communication between u two is key!!!! u have been thru quite a lot with the pregnancy related health issues, ur businesses, lifestyle (soc media etc). Getting to the root cause of whats eating at you is going to set u free. and it may be a host of things, but the marriage is the most viable and easy aspect of it to take a hard hit or pose a blame of ur not getting what u need from someone else. u r carrying a lot of bags (marriage, businesses, being a new mom/good mom, social media, tv, trying to make a new house a home, making sure ur kids are good, responsibility of ur mom and sis, the unknowns of ur fam in canada, life as we know it with Covid, etc) and u have to unpack the baggage and address each one blouse at a time. if the both of u want it, u have to do the work!
Marriage is between two people none of this is our business you should be talking to Adam, your husband. When you have outside opinion it can distract and turn small issues to bigger ones. Divorce should not be an answer when these type of issues can be resolved
Of course a licensed professional in marriage counseling would be best. But if I had to offer any advice I would ask in your heart of hearts do the both of u want to make the marriage work? are you willing to take the proper steps in doing so? two sides to a coin, can u both recall a time where u guys had that love connection and pinpoint whats lacking now that are true deal breakers? where and did this disconnection happen? get to the root cause and determine if you can find an amicable solution to stay in the marriage. ask yourselves if u care whether ur making the other happy and are u willing to take the steps in ensuring each other's happiness? this is a pretty simple one, but the two of u should make a list of ur deal breakers (things that are pushing u towards divorce rather than staying and working things out). i strongly believe counseling together to have an impartial party there to mediate, guide, advise, enlighten, incite each other to think of the other's feelings and viewpoint, etc is so essential. I have been watching for years since u were living at ur grandmas house pre-sammie and i wish nothing but well wishes to the both of u and ur fam. thank you for sharing!
I've been watching your show for a minute and I always thought Adam and watched his behavior with you answer me he never did show affection like that and some men's act like that and some man is very lovable but I always saw that in him and your mom I don't believe she have anything to do with it I do know I know s*** help to you when it comes down to your children and I know Adam thanking God that she's there too the help with the kids with everything going on in the world nowadays you need your family there to help you with your children people molesting kids and doing all type of things to children so it's good to have your mom there with you I feel like what's going on in Adam is Adam and you need to work that out and be real
I think a lot pf times youtubers put their entire lives on display not realizing that your union isn't for everyone but the two of you. I get it this is your job and your source of income, but when you get to the point of happiness something has to give. Think about all the good times, start setting times when you work and cut it off and come back to we're not working right now its family. Clock in and out. Marriage is sacred and not for everybody. I can remember coming to your Channel when you were pregnant with Samia and seeing how you and Adam were together was so cute. It's a little sad and unfortunate that you you're in the place that you're in right now but one thing for sure is you can always fall on your face and pray and ask God to give you the answers on where you need to be. I'll continue to pray for you guys and may you guys come back and be together stronger. Remember there is nothing wrong with dating your husband. Find a babysitter have date night and get back to being a loving couple.
Your mother seem like a real bachanalist......leave her out ur marriage
I love you guys so much & have been following you both for a VERY long time. Literally since the beginning. I definitely think when you get a place you should get one just for you & the kids & if your going to continue to provide for your mother & sister you definitely should get them their own place. You need to grow & heal alone with your children. Definitely without extra opinions. Therapy is definitely needed for you both. I think separation may help but therapy is definitely needed & you guys need to become lovers again. Take a step away from work for a while & fight for your marriage. Date again!! Get cute & visit places that you used to go when you first met. I pray you guys get through this.
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